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吾友非它即我之半,乃第二我也,故当视友如己焉。友之与我,虽有二身,二身之内,其心一而已,相须相佑,为结友之由,有为之君子,无异雠必有善友。交友之先,宜察;交友之后,宜信。友之馈友而望报,非馈也,与市易者等耳。各人不能全尽各事,故上帝命之交友以彼此肯助,若使除其道于世者,人类必散坏也。德志相似,其友始固。友之誉及雠之讪,并不可尽信焉。友之与友处处时时一而已,诚无近远内外面背,异言异情也。交友之贵贱在所交之意耳。特据德相友者,今世得几双乎?尔为吾之真友,则爱我以情,不爱以物也。友之物皆殴玻阎𪽈范囔读x,不可久友也。友者过誉之害较雠者过訾之害犹大焉。友者,古之尊名,今出之以售,比之于货,惜哉!故友为美友,不可弃之也,无故以新易旧,不久即悔。信于雠者,犹不可失有益也。人岂独不如此耶?良友相交之味失之,后更可知之矣。人人不相爱,则耦不为及友也,况于友者哉!信于友不足言矣。友之职至于义而止焉。上帝给人双目双耳双手双足,欲两友相助方为事有成矣。视其人之友如林,则知其德之盛;视其人之友落落如晨星,则知其德之薄。君子之交友难,小人之交友易。难合者,难散;易合者,易散也。世闲之物多各而无用同而始,为贫之财,为弱之力,为病之药焉。国家可无财库而不可无友也。友者既久寻之,既少得之,既难存之。或离于眼即念之于心焉。医士之意以苦药瘳人病,谄友之向以甘言长人愆。不能友己,何以友人。智者欲离浮友且渐而违之,非速而绝之,德友之美饵也。凡物无不以时久为人所厌,惟德弥久,弥感人情也。德在雠人犹可爱,况在友者哉!雠之馈不如友之棒也。世无友如天无日,如身无目矣。友之所宜,相宥有限,友相呼为兄而善于兄弟为友,友之益世也,大乎财焉。无人爱财为财,而有爱友特为友耳,多有密友便无密友也。不扶友之急则临急无助者,天下无友则无乐也。古闻上者,折开大石榴,或问之曰:“夫子何物愿获,其子之多耶?”咲答曰:“忠友也。”
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· 发布于 2026-10-18